A Mother's Day Gift… Preparing For The Inevitable
A reflection on facing mortality honestly rather than avoiding it, framed as a gift of preparation for the people we love.
Everyone has gifts. Caryn calls that Mojo. Magic Mojo is where she spreads the word about discovering, nurturing, and sharing it.
The name traces back to her son Jack, whose way of seeing the world taught her compassion and patience — lessons that shape every post here.
Amid daily headlines about conflict and division, Magic Mojo pauses to notice something else: people who step forward for others. Posts here highlight everyday acts of resolve, generosity, and quiet strength, often connecting back to the themes Caryn explores in her newspaper columns.
The Magic Mojo blog begins from a deeply personal place. It was inspired by Caryn's son Jack, whose unique perspective on the world taught her lessons in compassion and patience that continue to shape every post. The term "Mojo" represents the special gifts each person carries within themselves. Magic Mojo is where those gifts are recognized, nurtured, and ultimately shared with others. This space exists to celebrate the quiet strengths and everyday acts of generosity that often go unnoticed amid louder headlines. It is an invitation to pause, reflect, and recognize the good that still surrounds us, even in difficult times.
Each post on this blog highlights people who step forward when others step back. In a media landscape filled with conflict and division, Magic Mojo offers a counterpoint by focusing on resolve, kindness, and quiet strength. Many of these stories connect back to themes Caryn explores in her newspaper columns for the St. Paul Pioneer Press. Readers will find accounts of individuals grappling with challenges, finding hope in unexpected places, and discovering purpose through service to others. These are not grand tales but honest portraits of ordinary people doing extraordinary things.
The journey that led Caryn to create Magic Mojo was shaped by roles she never expected to hold. She has navigated life as a caregiver, a widow, a patient, and a head of a blended household. These experiences taught her that difficult situations often reveal hidden reservoirs of strength. Writing became a way to process grief, celebrate resilience, and connect with others walking similar paths. The blog draws from her background as an attorney and her years of volunteer service with organizations focused on autism, cancer research, and family support. Every post carries the hard-won wisdom of someone who has learned in the trenches.
Readers of Magic Mojo are invited to dig beneath the headlines and discover compelling insights about the human experience. Caryn describes herself as a discerning observer who enjoys exploring what makes people tick. Her writing blends personal narrative with broader observations about community, family, and perseverance. Whether she is sharing stories about her own family or highlighting the work of local volunteers, the goal remains the same: to offer a window into challenges and the hope that sustains us through them. This blog is for anyone seeking a sense of connection and a reminder that their own Mojo matters.
A reflection on facing mortality honestly rather than avoiding it, framed as a gift of preparation for the people we love.
A look at the often-unseen work of caregiving and the people who give steadily, even when recognition is small.
Drawing on her experience as a mother to a son with autism, Caryn writes about grief alongside gratitude for the gifts that come with it.
These posts connect to Caryn's published Pioneer Press Opinion section columns.
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